tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-366346005245270042.post4786857605318309246..comments2008-03-22T13:59:15.441-04:00-noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-366346005245270042.post-44496588010538431182008-03-21T16:59:00.000-04:002008-03-21T16:59:00.000-04:00A good date also involves taking her to another location if you two hit it off.<BR/><BR/>This ensures you're not just a quick meet in a restaurant, but that yuo've been to more than one place together. It shows you can lead her, can make things fun and interesting, and gives sets you apart from other guys.<BR/><BR/>I think the biggest guideline to being a cool guy women want is: don't fail at things you try, and don't put a lot of effort into trying things you don't really want. And to a woman, the kind of man she wants for the long term is secure, has a good sense of self, and tries for the right things at the right time. Making moves too early is therefore a turnoff. Knowing how to escalate and when it is not too early is key.A Manhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09307795014326393595noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-366346005245270042.post-42841905462724758262008-01-03T16:35:00.000-05:002008-01-03T16:35:00.000-05:00I diagree. Experience has taught me you DO NOT want to show up early before her. You want her to show up first. There's multiple reasons for this...<BR/><BR/>-If she flakes on you or is late you sit there like an idiot wasting time out of your day. Instead, call her around the meet up time and ask her how far away she is, that way you will know whether she's going to show up and when. If she says she's already there or close, then you can say "Cool, I'll be there in 10, grab us a table." If she totally forgot about your meet up or gives you an excuse that she can't meet up, then you can say, "Oh thank god, I'm down in (location) and totally forgot we were supposed to meet up. We'll make it happen another time, have a good day, bye."<BR/><BR/>-Letting her get there first sub-communicates that YOU are the prize, and you're a super busy guy with a full life.<BR/><BR/>-Letting her get there first and wait for you a few minutes works HUGELY toward your advantage. By nature it's uncomfortable being alone in a social environment...it's good to let her feel this so when you show up she'll be that much more thrilled to see you. Now those feelings will be anchored, so if you leave to go to the bathroom those feelings will return and she will feel uncomfortable without you around.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com