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Friday, January 18, 2008

Signs a Woman is Interested in You

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With Stephen and I on our way to San Diego, here's Michelle Hill with her take on how you can tell if a woman is interested in you. Look for my response in the next day or so...

So, you’re out on a first date with a girl, and for the life of you, you can’t figure out if she’s into you or not. Sound familiar? If it does, let me apologize on behalf of women out there like myself who aren’t very good at sending the classic signals (or in Mystery terms, “indicators of interest”) that guys use to read a woman.

I’ll be the first to admit it – it can me a little while to feel comfortable around people sometimes. So while I may be interested, I’m not always quite sure how to demonstrate that. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve still done okay, but I’ve been told on more than one occasion by boyfriends that they had no clue if I was interested on the first date.

To fill in the gaps, here are some clues to look for that will give some indication that she digs you and wants to go out again:

- She spends more than an hour and a half with you
- She changes location with you
- She leans in towards you or stands close to you (anything increasing the proximity is good)
- She gives you her full attention (and is not looking at anyone or everyone who walks by)
- She comes back from the bathroom with her hair freshly combed / makeup reapplied / top button undone (you get the idea)
- At the end of the night, there is some awkward maneuvering when saying good night (i.e. she’s not clear if you’re going to kiss her on the cheek or the lips or give her a hug or what, but she wants you to do something)
- After the date, she contacts you in ANY way, shape or form – text, email, phone call (doesn’t matter what she says)

I know this is not the ideal situation and that it would be much easier if we all just said, “by the way, I’m into you”, but nothing is ever that simple. And let’s face it; the guessing game can be half the fun. But, hopefully I’ve given you some guidance to figuring out those enigmatic women like myself.

-Michelle Hill
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