Money's 25 places with the highest percentage of singles

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Money Magazine just put out an article about the "best" places to live. Turns out, one of the subcatagories is "best places to be single." It's actually the 25 places that have the highest percentage of singles, and an over-30 scene. We all know the best place to be single is college! Regardless here's the link, and part of the list:

1. Hoboken, NJ
2. Cambridge, MA
3. Somerville, MA
4. Berkeley, CA
5. Boston, MA
6. Burlington, VT
7. Washington, DC
8. Boulder, CO
9. North Druid Hills, GA
10. Hermosa Beach, CA
11. Minneapolis, MN
12. Hempstead, NY
13. Atlanta, GA
14. Syracuse, NY
15. Albany, NY

Check out the link for the rest of the cities...

Now here's your part: If you live in any of these cities, tell us what you think. If you don't, give us your opinion of your area!


Alexander Stone & Stephen David
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Online Dating Edge / Approach Dynamics

"Speed Dating 101" YouTube Video

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We found this funny spoof of speed dating gone awry. While we've experienced and heard about similar situations, this takes whatever may go wrong to the next level.

About the worst thing I've experienced while speed dating was a pushy 35 year old who threatened to cross off my name unless I told her what I did for a living (I told her I was the world's tallest midget). I smiled and crossed out hers.

Then again, I did end up dating the organizer of the event (a prominent NYC matchmaker) afterwards - who by far was the WORST date I have ever had. One day when I am ready to start a holy war I'll get into more details. In the meantime, check out the video.

If you have any funny speed dating stories share them now. We all could use a laugh!



Alexander Stone & Stephen David
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Online Dating Edge / Approach Dynamics

Love advice from Ben Stein?

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As my father says, "Advice is like an asshole. Everyone has one and they usually stink." [Actually he was talking about stock tips at the time, but that's advice of sorts.] The key word is usually, as there are some people that have gained your respect so you should listen carefully to their advice. I'd like to think that if you're reading this, you've gained our trust. I know if Warren Buffett gave me some investment advice I'd listen.

Now Ben Stein is peddling advice about love. Yes, that Ben Stein (the lawyer, economist, former speech writer for Nixon and Ford, writer,actor...)the monotone guy from Ferris Bueller's Day Off. I may be being a little tongue in cheek but Ben Stein himself has said, "I've said to my wife repeatedly, I just want on my gravestone, 'He loved dogs' and 'Bueller, Bueller."

In today's New York Times, Lessons in Love, By Way of Economics, Ben Stein gives some advice about love. I think it's sound advice. Here are some key points:

1. You need to invest time, "caring, patience, and unselfishness," and you'll get this back in return.
Of course all of this assumes you are looking for love and the other person is as well! Just like an economist, making assumptions!

2. High quality people are what you should seek out.

3. Do your due diligence. Physically someone may be hot, but inside they may not!Get to know the person inside and out.

4. You shouldn't have to share your love. He or she should be yours and yours alone. Unless you're into that sort of thing!

5. When you find a winner, stick with it.

Happy reading!



Alexander Stone & Stephen David
Copyright 2008 - All rights reserved
Online Dating Edge / Approach Dynamics