Dating Women With Money [article]

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I recently came across an interesting article in the New York Times about the problems successful women have while dating guys that make a lot less money than them. The article is entitled 'Putting Money On the Table', and you can check it out here.

As a reminder, this is not something you should be discussing with your significant other until WELL into the relationship. In fact, I never mention it at all. If she is continually trying to raise the issue, you may have a problem child on your hands.

From my experience, it really depends on the woman. In most situations where I have dated women that made more money than me, it has been a non-issue. And in the one situation where it actually WAS a problem, it turns out (as it usually will) that the girl had other issues as well - but at least I was lucky to find that out early.

In short, if you don't make it an issue, neither will she. Having just quit my job to return to school, I can tell you from personal experience that even earning less money than the Boston Mauler will not (in and of itself) prevent you from getting dates - provided, of course, that you have your shit together.

If, however, a woman is on your ass because you are underachieving or are too lazy to go out and get a job, then you might want to take that as a wake up call and get your life in order. No woman wants to date a bum - and they shouldn't have to.

Alexander Stone & Stephen David
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