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Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Questions to Avoid When Talking to a Guy

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Here are four questions you should never ask a guy according to Cosmopolitan.com:
1. Questions comparing yourself to the ex.
2. Do you love me?
3. Can I borrow money?
4. Are you cheating on me?

All these questions should be seen as taboo, unless you are in a committed relationship, but there are others that should never be asked.

Take for instance the ubiquitous "Does this (insert article of clothing here) make me look fat?" Talk about a loaded question. If we say "yes," then we are open for attack. Let's be honest, if you are asking that question, you are fat (think treadmill), or you have low self esteem (stop being a door mat- no one wants a long term relationship with a door mat).

Another question, that would boarder on insensitive: "Was your hairline always so far back?"

Here's another line to shy away from, "Is it in?" No need to explain that one.

If you needed this advice, you need more help than you thought!
Happy Dating!

Alexander Stone & Stephen David
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Online Dating Edge / Approach Dynamics

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Is it in?... hahahaha

Haiku Sue said...

Now you are going after the boys. Even handed, thanks.
Did you miss me much my boys?