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Monday, July 13, 2009

Texting and Email to Setup a Date? Grow up!

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Guys am I being a wuss? I have gone out with this girl a couple of times and she only emails me or texts me. I'm all for email and texting, but do you think it's weird that she never calls or answers her phone? -Evan in Orlando

Evan, I'm sorry. It seems like you've found someone too busy to pick up a phone or have the common courtesy to have a conversation on the phone. Email should be used when first corresponding to a potential date and texting for quick messages. No one likes to be treated as unimportant and relegated to business like emails. Perhaps she is just immature and does not realize that this can come across as rude and selfish; either way tread carefully. No use wasting your time on a selfish or immature individual.

Some quick advise to our readers out there. Treat people with respect. If you are uninterested, move on. Otherwise, take the time to make a call.

Alexander Stone & Stephen David
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Online Dating Edge / Approach Dynamics

1 comment:

Alicia said...

I was seeing a guy that always emailed me. It was weird. I asked him if he had a phone, to which he just laughed. Turns out he lived with his parents and his cellphone was for work. Yet one more loser.