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Tuesday, August 14, 2007

Approaching Women: Handling the Cock Blocker [video]

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So you move in on the hottie by the bar. Things are seemingly going well, until... the COCK BLOCK! We have all met him or her before. The jealous friend that doesn't want you or anyone else to have a good time. The 'mother hen' trying to call the shots for her 'chicks'. The chode who wants to move in on claimed territory. Good fun, eh?

So how do you handle this situation? If it is YOUR friend, perhaps it is time to either have a chat with him or consider leaving him home next time.

If it is the friend of the woman you are talking to, you have a couple of options. Ideally, you should try and make friends with her. One way to do this is to hi-five her at the first sign of resistance and say something like, "Hey, thats AWESOME! I am the cock block for my friends too. Nice!" Or if you have identified her PRIOR to approaching, you can always initiate with HER and actually have her introduce you to the woman you are interested in.

And finally, we have the chode. Most of these guys are jackasses with absolutely NO game, and will not last more than a minute or two anyway. So use that opportunity to tool him and to get a laugh out of the girl you are talking with. If done properly, he wont even know you are making fun of him!

Say to the girl, "Hey, doesn't he look like one of those guys from [New Kids on the Block, Color Me Bad, Menudo, etc.]? Too bad I'm not gay, cause I would TOTALLY go for him!" Then tease the girl about being attracted to him, and actually encourage him to continue trying to pick her up!

The key here is to keep your cool, smile, and make it look like you are actually pulling for him! Eventually he will get too embarassed and walk away. Priceless.

However, the WORST thing you can do is react in ANY way. Do NOT get jealous or upset or nervous. If you do, YOU will be blown out. You have NOTHING to be upset about, this guy is complimenting your taste in women.

So without further ado, here's a perfect example of how NOT to deal with a cock block. Enjoy!



Alexander Stone & Stephen David
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Online Dating Edge / Approach Dynamics

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