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Tuesday, June 19, 2007

Field Report - Don't Kiss Up To Women

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I was riding the subway last night when this hottie got on at Times Square. By this point, the train was getting crowded and people (both men and women) were standing everywhere. Almost immediately, some guy gets up and offers her his seat. The woman (who happened to be with her boyfriend) gives him one of those perplexed, 'why are you offering me your seat?' looks, and politely refuses.

Just then, this other guy comes over and takes the seat! It was a beautiful thing.

Remember that the next time you get the urge to buy an attractive woman a drink or do something else that is innappropriate under the circumstances. This is NOT a random act of kindness, and it WILL make you look like a jackass.

Don't be a CHUMP.

Alexander Stone & Stephen David
Copyright 2007 - Approach Dynamics / Online Dating Edge

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

The action of the seat offer was not the "chump" act.... it was staying standing long enough for some a-hole to grab it!

Alexander Stone said...

Actually, it WAS a chump act. This guy had no interest in giving up his seat to ANY of the other women who had been standing on the train for awhile, but was just TOO happy to go out of his way to try and give it to a young, attractive woman who just got on. I have no problem with a gentleman offering a lady his seat, but this situation REEKED of supplication and a lack of genuineness.